Try to take advantage of Venus’ entry into lovable Pisces on the 13th. It’s like a double dose of everything good. There is an old standby saying that suggests you do all things in moderation. You could apply that to lots of situations but can you ever really have too much adoration, too much fun, too much love making? I think not, but maybe that’s just me. Mix it up kids. Try something new: a position, a fetish (let it out you dirty thing). Screw moderation this year — just do it till it doesn’t feel good that way anymore — then do something else. Let the lab geeks worry about rocket science, it gives the rest of us time to stick with the discovery of simple satisfaction. Mars retrograde from January 23 to April 13 slows this planet’s normal call to action allowing you to think before you act or speak. Admit it or don’t, relationships are all about strategies, and developing one that gets all parties what they want the majority of the time is one of delicate design. It’s not like lube that should be slapped on and kneaded into every crease and fold. It is an art that must be learned, appreciated and applied with care. Addressing your own needs is a desire; giving pleasure is the real reward. Be generous.