(Aquarius (January 20th to February 18) is a Fixed Air sign ruled by Uranus, the planet of independence and rebellion.)
How can you keep your slippery when wet Aquarian lover between your sheets and not another’s? You could try one (or all) of these:
1. Be patient. You might want it right here right now but pushing the point will only push them away, let them, or let them think they’re calling the shots and you’ll soon get your dirty way.
2. Behave right by them. Forget the lies, fibs, omissions, manipulations, or application of emotional ties that bind. It’s a no go on these – they’ll either bust your BS right away or the truth will come to them in a dream or something else weirdly Aquarian. Same result though. Busted.
3. Delight them with how different you two really are. All that peas in a pod stuff bores them. You like to make love loud and naked, they want fully clothed and silent. Just how quiet can you be when you’ve been asked to do so? I challenge you… and so do they.
4. Be controlled. Aquarians cannot stand a scene even if they are the cause of it. Yes, yes, the make-up love will be fantastic, but your best strategy is to make it seem that you don’t want them as much as they want you. If you can maintain your aloofness for just the right amount of time they will beg for re-entry. A full out Aquarian “please, Baby, please” is worth the wait.
5. Understand that they are the greatest eye-ballers out there and it has nothing to do with you at all. You’re hot but who’s that over there looking so good? They just want a little peek. Nothing major. Not making any moves… just looking. So, let them look.
6. Know that they are interested in everything and everyone and any display of jealousy on your part is going to be a deal breaker. Keep them on a leash if you must but make sure it’s long, and loose, and preferably made out of velvet or satin or sexy silk. A gentle tug will become the kind of foreplay you’ll both enjoy.
7. Be prepared to talk things out – and thru. They are great speakers and thinkers. They love a trip down memory lane as much as a fantasy verbalized into action. They want to know what you think about them, what you think about you and them together, and what you think about what you do together. Indulge them in this and you wont need the leash from above.
8. Don’t fake it in bed. This is a little like Number 2 but on a deeper level. Aquarians make love all in whether it’s in the car, in the kitchen or in the bed and they can tell when you’re right there with them… or not. They don’t like not. Don’t do it.
9. Go with the inventiveness flow. Spontaneity is doing things on the spur of the moment. Inventiveness is coming up with new ways of doing things, or different ways of doing old things. Being able to come up with new (to you) positions and ways to get things done in the bedroom is an Aquarian’s idea of sexy fun.
10. Break out the massage oil and rub their feet and their ankles. These are Aquarian hotspots and it will be worth any time and effort on your part to massage and pamper them. Lay them down, separate their legs just so, do your foot thing and then use that little runway of space you made to ease on up and do your real thing.